同甘共苦的意思是共同享受幸福,共同担当艰苦。下面是小编收集的一篇相关的格林《同甘共苦》的中英文版本,欢迎大家阅读与学习。
从前,有个裁缝总爱吵架。 他的妻子善良、勤劳、虔诚,却不能得到他的欢心。
无论她干什么事,他都不满意,总是嘀嘀咕咕,又是打又是骂。 当地的官府最后知道了这件事,就传讯了他并把他关进了监狱,希望能让他改过自新。 他在监狱里只能靠面包和水度日,关了一段时间后,他就被释放了,不过要他发誓从此不再打老婆,要与她和睦相处,休戚与共,像夫妻应该的那样。 开始一阵子还好,随后他又旧病复发,老爱嘀咕争吵。 因为他不敢打她,便扯抓她的头发,女人挣脱了他,逃到外面的院子里,他就拿着尺和剪刀尾随其后,四处追赶她,并用尺和剪刀以及其他所能拿到的东西朝她摔去。 打着她时,他就哈哈大笑;没打中时,他就暴跳如雷,百般诅咒。 这样一直闹到邻居赶来帮他的妻子,他才罢手。 于是裁缝再次被官府传去,官府叫他想想他说过的话。 "亲爱的大人,"他说,"我信守了我的誓言,并没有打她,而是与她同甘共苦。"法官说,"这怎么可能?她可是再次严厉地控告了你。""我没有打她,只是因为看见她怪模怪样,我想用手去给她理理头发,她却挣脱了我,恶意地跑开了。于是我就匆匆地去赶她,让她回来做她的事。我把手里东西向她扔,是作为善意的纪念。可我仍和她同甘共苦呀!因为我每次打她,我高兴,她痛苦;如果没打到她,她就高兴,我就难受。"法官对这种回答可不满意,给了他应得的惩罚。
同甘共苦英文版:
Sharing joy and sorrow
There was once a tailor, who was a quarrelsome fellow, and his wife, who was good, industrious, and pious, never could please him. Whatever she did, he was not satisfied, but grumbled and scolded, and knocked her about and beat her. As the authorities at last heard of it, they had him summoned, and put in prison in order to make him better. He was kept for a while on bread and water, and then set free again. He was forced, however, to promise not to beat his wife any more, but to live with her in peace, and share joy and sorrow with her, as married people ought to do. All went on well for a time, but then he fell into his old ways, and was surly and quarrelsome. And because he dared not beat her, he would seize her by the hair and tear it out. The woman escaped from him, and sprang out into the yard, but he ran after her with his yard-measure and scissors, and chased her about, and threw the yard-measure and scissors at her, and whatever else came his way. When he hit her he laughed, and when he missed her, he stormed and swore. This went on so long that the neighbors came to the wife's assistance. The tailor was again summoned before the magistrates, and reminded of his promise. "Dear gentlemen," said he, "I have kept my word, I have not beaten her, but have shared joy and sorrow with her." - "How can that be," said the judge, "when she continually brings such heavy complaints against you?" - "I have not beaten her, but just because she looked so strange I wanted to comb her hair with my hand; she, however, got away from me, and left me quite spitefully. Then I hurried after her, and in order to bring her back to her duty, I threw at her as a well-meant admonition whatever came readily to hand. I have shared joy and sorrow with her also, for whenever I hit her I was full of joy, and she of sorrow, and if I missed her, then she was joyful, and I sorry." The judges were not satisfied with this answer, but gave him the reward he deserved.
童话对孩子成长的好处
童话是根据儿童心理发展的特点创造出来的,运用了想象、幻想和夸张、比喻等修辞手段,给儿童提供了认知世界的一种文本。童话通过“丰富的想象、幻想和夸张来塑造形象,反映生活,增进儿童的思想性格的成长。一般故事神奇曲折,内容和表现形式浅显生动,对自然物的描写常用拟人化手法,能适应儿童的接受能力。”正如有人提出“童话是儿童与大自然的对话,童话是儿童与自己的对话。”
童话故事可以丰富孩子的想象力。童话故事中的环境描写最具特色,随着故事情节的变化,高山、树林、小溪等空间变化频繁,不同的环境在孩子的大脑中形成不同的画面,把自身融入故事情节中,去感悟、去体会,在潜移默化中丰富孩子的想象力。可以说,童话是培养孩子想象力的最佳材料。
童话故事可以培养孩子的情商。情商是成功人才的基础条件,是人生决胜的关键,在幼儿成长中童话故事具有很明显的培养孩子情商的作用。如《卖火柴的小女孩》,让孩子有同情心,珍惜美好生活;《皇帝的新装》则告诉孩子们要相信自己,做诚实的孩子。在童话故事中,孩子们能学到好与坏、真与假、善与恶、同情与反感等,可以培养孩子的道德判断力与价值观,可以丰富孩子的情感,开启智慧的大门。
童话故事有助于提高孩子的语言表达能力。童话的语言活泼、简练、流畅、通俗易懂,句式表达无比丰富,是不同民族语言的精华,集语言、心理、环境等描写为一体,语言的作用发挥得淋漓尽致。在讲故事的过程中,注重语言的表达,抑扬顿挫,让孩子感受语言的魅力,如置身于童话世界中。在实践中,深深感受到童话故事是儿童学习语言的好教材。
童话故事也有助于提高孩子的注意力。使孩子集中注意力不是一件容易的事,而集中注意力对孩子成长的重要性是不言而喻的。多给孩子讲童话故事可以达到提高孩子注意力的目的。如孩子在一起活泼好动,不能安静下来,但一开始讲故事,再淘气的宝宝也会很快静下来。
在讲故事的过程中,父母要注意运用一些技巧,效果会更好。如让孩子复述听过的故事情节,重复讲的时候留出关键词让孩子来补充,有良好表现时给予恰如其分的鼓励等,都可以强化孩子的注意力。