Children always are the apple of their parents’ eyes. With the improving of people’s living standard, the society and parents provide a more privileged life for the children. For a child, he may experience no frustration until he grows up. So, some people point out if children living in such circumstance, they may be unfit for the brutal competitive society. How to care for children in a right way becomes a hot debate. I have two suggestions for this question.

 孩子们一直都是他们父母的掌上明珠。随着人们生活水平的提高，社会和家长都为孩子们提供了更优越的生活。对于一个孩子来说，他可能在长大前都没经历过什么挫折。所以有人指出如果孩子们生活在这样的环境下，他们可能就无法适应这个残酷的、充满竞争性的社会。如何正确关爱孩子成了一个热门话题。我对这个问题有两个建议。

First of all, parents should let their children go. Everyone is unique in the world and everyone has their own thought. Although parents care for their children, they can’t arrange everything for their children. Besides, maybe what they arrange is not the thing that their children want. They have their own way to go and they have to face everything by themselves one day. Why not let them grow up little by little? Spoiling children can provide a non-polluted environment for them from the appearance, but in fact, it will increase the difficulty for them in their later life. So parents need to let their children walk on their own, instead of trying to hold their hands at every turn.

首先，父母应该对孩子放手。每个人在这个世界上都是独一无二的，而且每个人都是有自己的思想的。尽管父母关爱他们的孩子，但是他们不能为孩子安排好一切。此外，也许他们所安排的并不是他们孩子想要的。他们有自己的路要走，而且总有一天他们得自己面对一切。为什么不让他们长大一点点地长大呢？从表面上看溺爱可以为孩子提供一个无污染的环境，但事实上，它会增加他们以后生活的困难。所以父母应该对自己的孩子放手，而不是时时刻刻扶着他们。

In addition, parents should listen to their children. Though children’s thought is immature to the adult, they need to listen to their children, so that they can understand what the children want and need. This is a good way to treat people. If parents only put their thought on children without asking anything, it is the way to treat animals. And if parents understand their children’s thought, they can lead them in a proper way to make children grow up healthily.

 此外，父母应该倾听孩子的声音。尽管对于大人来说孩子们的思想并不成熟，但是他们需要倾听孩子的声音，这样他们才能够了解孩子们的想要和需要。这是与他人相处的好方法。如果父母只是把自己的想法强加在孩子的身上，这是对待动物的方式。如果家长了解孩子的想法，他们可以用正确的方式引导孩子，让他们健康成长。

In summary, using the proper to care for children is necessary. It can really help children grow up healthily.

总之，正确关爱孩子是很有必要的。这真的能帮助孩子们健康成长。