In recent years, many dating shows appear in television, such as “If you are the one” 、“We are dating” . As the increasing of the audiences rating, these programs have attacked huge attention. Some guests in the shows put forward stand-out points, the bold remarks widely circulated and focused people’s attention on the Internet, even though the controversial topics make enough ratings for the programs but it also bring countless criticism. Therefore, some people think the programs should be banned from designing promote negative values among urban Chinese youth. Others think this kind of program solve some people's marriage, bring joy to people. In my opinion, I think NBB should release a series of rules for the Dating shows.

近几年，电视出现很多相亲节目，像最近很红的非诚勿扰，我们约会吧。随着这些节目收视率的增高，关注的人变得越来越多。随之而来节目中出现的各类嘉宾，各种出位大胆的言论在网络上迅速流传，成为人们关注的焦点。饱受争议的话题为节目赚足了收视率，也惹来无数非议。因此有人认为这类节目给在中国城市年轻人中推销负面的价值观，应该被禁止 另一些人认为这类节目解决了部分人的人生大事，给人们带来欢乐。我认为国家广电局因针对相亲节目发布一系列严厉的新规定。

Hit shows attract millions of viewers, but the value for supremacy worship of money, hedonism would mislead young people who haven’t owned correctly judged ability, and it will be harmful to the moral fabric of society. But for a small part of high-profile young women, love means figure. A potential suitor may have a sense of humor or good looks, but the real point is that he must have an apartment, as well as how big the flat is, besides, considerable deposit is necessary, In the dating shows “if you are the one”, a girl named Manuo, arrogantly refused a male’s request of taking her out by bicycle, and said "I'd rather cry in a BMW than smile in your bike.”

相亲节目吸引了成百万的观众，但是拜金、享乐主义至上的价值言论对青少年在内的一些还没有拥有正确判断能力的观众具有很大的误导作用，有害于社会道德风气。对于一小部分优秀年轻女性来说，真爱的全部意义在于数字。一个潜在的追求者可以拥有幽默感或英俊的长相，但真正管事的是他是否有一套公寓，还有它是多少平米,另外可观的银行存款是必须的。在相亲节目非诚勿扰上，一个女孩叫马诺，她傲慢地拒绝了一个男性竞争者用自行车载她出去的请求,并称，“我宁愿在宝马车里哭，也不愿在你自行车的后座笑。”

Although there are some dissenting voices, but the high ratings also reflect the shows’ popularity. It plays a positive role for the problem of older young men and women’s marriage .Elders are very supported it. There is a saying goes, “A three unfilial ,without issue.” it’s not easy for Parents to bring children up, but when it comes time to get marriage ,children don’t have objects, parents would be very worried.

虽然相亲节目有一些反对的声音，但是他的高收视率也说明他很受欢迎。它对解决大龄青年男女的婚恋问题起了一定的积极作用。尤其长辈们很支持它。中国有句古话“不孝有三无后为大。父母好不容易把孩子拉扯长大，但是到了结婚的的年龄，孩子却没有对象，他们会很着急。